The big and bold Napoleon Hill Think and Grow Rich summary by Mario Ishikawa
Once you read Think and Grow Rich, it seems like any other book or media trying to teach you to achieve your success was actually based on this book. Napoleon Hill spent several years studying the most successful people from his time to come with this knowlege encompassed on this book.
The book is old but just as Dale Carnegie’s How to win friends and influence people, the lessons are timeless.
This is not going to be a review or a shot summary. It is a gigantic summary of a masterpiece that is not loaded with bullshit. So you won’t get this amount of information in a brief summary. Here I tried to list the essential of Think and Grow Rich.
Think and Grow Rich comes with “the secret” of a rich and purposeful life. The secret of the book is intended to be realized by the reader at any moment on the book.
I’m about to tell you the secret right now! And it is actually quite simple.
The secret of a purposeful life is… (last chance without spoiler)
To have a life purpose!
Having a life purpose actually does not come automatically when we are born. Few people have it clear, most people live their lives without any idea of their purposes. That is why this book comes with a formula for you to have a life purpose!
And to make it more clear to you I am going to show you an example. Let’s talk about two families. I could exagerate but instead I will try to keep it simple. One family is the 1% one the 1%, living in the Hamptons. The other is living under American line of poverty in Detroit. Both families welcome their first child in the same year. If properly tested, the rich family has a child with an average IQ while the poor family has a child beyond average. Which child do your think it is going to succeed as an adult, considering no angel investment from their family in their adult lives? The rich person might grow up with no big ambitions and no spectacular academic results. The poor one will grow up with great low level school results but his ambition will be mostly set by his environment.
So, even though the rich person is not ambitious, she would grow with at least one life achieve paradigm: to keep her lifestyle, her status quo. The poor person on the other hand, would grow under the exact same conditions. Even if she is ambitious, she’d agree to have as a minimum the same financial level where she had grew up.
So with that I want to tell you that IQ is not determinant for success. Your expectations are. If you are not an ambitious person, that means you will settle for the standards you are living for.
Think and grow rich help you to create this strong inner desire called purpose, and the following pages are going to explain you how.
The book is based on principles:
Power of Master Mind
Six ghosts of fear
This is a work in progress. To be continued on this same URL…
So you were not raised in a bilingual environment, but you managed your way to become fluent on a second language. As you have your first child, it might occur to you: would it make sense to speak to my child on my second language?
That actually occurred to me. As a Brazilian, I grew up speaking Portuguese as my mother tongue but I learned English as I was growing. By the time I was 17 I could say I was fluent, although there was still a lot to learn and improve.
When my first son was born, this idea sounded actually quite normal. A little unusual, but I didn’t think at any moment it could be wrong. As a matter of fact, a friend mine, born in Taiwan, told me he would raise his son only with Mandarin and English because Portuguese the boy would learn anyway. That encouraged me to become consistent, speaking only in English to my son instead of mixing.
I could see some people staring me in a different way. Not strangers, but friends and family. I can’t say I didn’t care but that did not stopped me. My son was almost one year old when two people, in different moments, told me that this would never work, as English is not my native language. Well, it was time then to research about the subject.
The year was 2011/2012. The search results were not so good. As I was searching for bilingual kids, bilingual education and other related keywords, only one scenario would pop up. People living out of their home country and trying to do somehow the opposite: teach the children how to speak their heritage language. And even with them the opinions were not so favorable. Too many Brazilians living abroad, for example, would complain that their children would never answer in Portuguese. As I was introducing my scenario, I was bombarded. And I understand. After all, the subject could be bilingual education, but in fact, the topic was raising the child in the native language of their parents. It was their goal, all they wanted and probably they had a list of excuses already ready for their spouses. So I was still not convinced. I understood that this was their needs and my case had nothing to do with them.
But I had no idea how to search for it. What is the name of what I am doing then? I don’t know how but I ended up finding a blog called Bringing up Bilingual. There I found someone living my dilema. An American woman raising her children in French, that she had learnt not from birth. And then I discovered one term: non-native speaking parents. I also discovered a great blog called Apples and Manzanas. A Spanish family raising a child in English.
Then I founded a forum website called nnsparents.com. It does not exist anymore. It worked fine for a while, connecting parents from all over the world on the same situation. But I guess as the kids were growing, people got more confident and the contact started to become rare. In fact I started to take more time deleting spam than really connecting with people, so I shut down the website. But the subject is still relevant.
Things are changing, and changing really fast. Only 5 years have passed and I feel the perception to be much different.
Now when people notice my 5 year old son is speaking in English with me they are all curious about it wanting to know how it happened. Bilingual groups and forums have more and more people coming with the same question, and I can say now it is something quite common. Not that everyone is doing, but anyone starting now will feel much less lonely than I felt 5 years ago when people criticized me.
I guess the benefits are clear. Even people that never researched for the topic know that at least there is the benefit of learning the language in a much easier way. It is much harder to learn it later. And there are also several other claims, such as children growing up more intelligent and more aware of other people’s needs.
What is natural environment to raise a bilingual or multilingual child? Natural environments are usually like:
Couple from country with language A move to country with language B. The baby learn the language A at home and B with the community.
One person from country with language A moves to country with language B and there get married with someone from this country. The baby will learn the language A with one parent and B with the other parent and community.
One person from country with language A marry a person from country with language B and they both move to country with language C. This is a very interesting case that can raise trilingual children naturally or even with four languages, when the parents use a fourth language to communicate between themselves.
With all the benefits from bilingual education, and most important, if it is how the parents want to raise their children, why not raise a bilingual child in a situation where two people from country with language A have a child on country with language A and want the baby to learn the language B? If you feel yourself on this position and you are lost, I am happy to say you are not alone and it definitely works! If you want to talk about it, just email me and it will be my pleasure to help.
Usual concerns are:
The child will not learn a perfect accent
Don’t get on this trap of all or nothing. Actually never in your life. Even in your work something done is better than something perfect never finished, or worst, never started. You’ll be giving a wonderful gift that is to allow a person to think and express naturally in a second language. It will the children’s job to improve the accent for perfection, if this is HER desire
The language will affect the relationship
This might be true if you feel uncomfortable speaking another language. Do you feel happier and more caring when speaking your native language? Do you feel you cannot express the same feelings on the second language? Feel free to decide what is better to you. Bilingual people usually have different feelings when using different languages. This is cultural. With a second language you might be adding your own very personal kind of bond with your child, even though you are afraid. And it will certainly be based on a culture that you know the expressions so you are not only expressing your feelings as you are creating a small environment for cultural immersion.
And by the way, my father raised me and my sister on his second language and we had no problem at all. His case is much different. People from country with language A move to country with language B and ignore the existence of language B. My grandparents came from Japan, my father was born in Brazil and he started to learn Portuguese only when he was 7 years old, at school. And he opted to speak always in Portuguese with me, although now I wish he had done different. So, with this I want to leave an open channel for you to talk to me in case you have any doubts about the subject. Just email me: firstname.lastname@example.org
Who said watching TV is useless? With good documentaries, movies and TV Shows it can also supplement things we are currently learning.
Last year I was presented to the classic book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I was impressed how I had never heard of it, despite of the fact it was the creator of the term Mastermind. At the same time I started reading this book, I started watching 11.22.63 on Hulu.
Spoiler alert: I’ll reveal here the secret of Think and Grow Rich. No spoiler for 11.22.63.
Starring James Franco, 11.22.63 is an uncommon story based on the book 11/22/63 by Stephen King. On the story, Jake (James Franco) was at a restaurant signing his divorce papers. His friend and restaurant owner Al (Chris Cooper) serve him some coffee and 5 minutes later, reappear older, with beard and clearly sick. Asked what happened he said he got cancer. Jake couldn’t understand how he could have got cancer in 5 minutes. Then Al show him a door on the end of the facility. He just asks for him to enter.
As Jake goes through that door, he goes to a totally different place, apparently in 60’s. He was not told how to get back but he managed his way. Scared and angry at the same time, he is curious to know what had just happened and then Al explains everything and also the rules.
For some unknown reason that door exists and has this power. Every time he goes there, he goes to the same time and day of Dallas, Texas, 1960. It doesn’t matter how long he stays there, when he gets back always 5 minutes only has passed. If he goes back to the door, he resets any change in history he might have made before. And going beyond, Al tells him what was his plan. He tried several times to avoid the assassination of John F Kennedy in 11/22/63. He told all he could until he had known and said that when it was certain that Lee Harvey Oswald was the one and only assassin, he could kill him and return. It was hard to be convinced but he accepted the mission. The mission that in the words of Al would make the world a much better place.
So there goes Jake, with all the information he had, and also a book to make some money on bets. He was a teacher and found a new job in 1960 on a school. He met a woman. While watching that and had read more than half of Think and Grow Rich book, I started to wonder how Jake was like a Superman on that world.
And that not because of the knowledge he had about the future, but because he went to that world with a well defined mission: avoid the assassination of JFK. On that world there was just one way for him to fail. So, he was not worried about his job. As a matter of fact, he got a job to have what to do. He didn’t have to worry about women, politics, oil change, whatever. Anything he did out of his purpose, good or bad, would be irrelevant as long as it didn’t really interfere on his mission.
Taken to another level closer to reality, it is somehow why so many immigrants achieve better life conditions than natives on the new country. Usually they leave their home country sure that with hard work they will succeed in another country like USA. This success belongs to them. It is already written on their biography, it just happen to be in the future and after hard work. They go to another country with a well defined purpose. So they don’t really care if the simple way they live is not well seen by neighbors. They care about what going through the path that they know will pay them what they deserve.
So by now I guess it is clear what is the secret on Think and Grow Rich: having a well defined purpose. Even when people think they don’t have a life purpose, their background will at least guide them through a not so ambitious and almost automatic purpose. For example: children usually think on maintaining the mediocrity of the environment they were raised. A not intelligent child raised in an upper-class family will usually find his way to maintain his lifestyle because that is her “normal”. A smart boy on a violent and poor community is not likely to achieve the upper-class level. But the real power of the book read by so many successful entrepreneurs over generations is to show how using auto-suggestion one can create on his mind a powerful purpose. As silly as it seems, I’m so grateful to have watched 11.22.63 because it made my understanding of the book much clear and if write this here, is with the hope of also enlighten others with the power of the message on Think and Grow Rich.